It’s About the Light

The leaves drift and drop from the trees each fall. It is often thought the leaves falling is due to the cooler weather. Simplistically, it is more about the decreasing amount of light as the days become shorter, the chlorophyll which give the leaves their green color breaks down, and the leaves change their color to the many magnificent oranges, yellows, golds, scarlets, amber, rust, and crimson.

It’s about the light.

When I was afraid to go upstairs to my bedroom as a 5 and 6 year old because it was dark and I could not be sure there was no creepy thing lurking. There was not light in the stairway or upper room until I got to my bedroom.

How many times have I been stopped by my own fear and uncertainty? When I didn’t think I could see enough? So it didn’t stop at age 6!

Hydrangea. Photo by MDessein

Ah, when did I not see when I was the light? As my children have become autonomous, amazing adults, I sometimes look back and wish I had known better for times they were in distress and uncertainty. I tended to react to the event, their behavior, and circumstances rather than look at the bigger picture, possible actions, and then respond. Yet, they are both still speaking to me! and I look forward to each time. For the most part, they remember when I stood up for them, taught them, played with them~

Mukilteo sunset. Photo by MDessein

Michael Strassfeld is an author, a rabbi, and thinker. One of his thoughts captured my attention, “Light gives of itself freely, filling all available space. It does not seek anything in return; it asks not whether you are friend or foe. It gives of itself and is not thereby diminished.”

Be the light.

29 Comments

  • Caroline Baertsch

    September 17, 2020 at 4:10 pm

    Wow, that is perfect Mary, just perfect.

    • Mary

      September 17, 2020 at 4:14 pm

      Thank you, Caroline. That is great to hear.

  • Mary Duke

    September 17, 2020 at 4:41 pm

    I am working on a painting on which I have written two words “pause” , and “listen”.
    Mary, your words have caused me to pause and listen to your wisdom. I feel it resonating in my heart.
    Thanks for sharing 🌈🌺

    • Mary

      September 17, 2020 at 4:45 pm

      You’re painting! Yay you~ Thanks for reading, and sharing, Mary.

  • Meg Philp

    September 17, 2020 at 4:43 pm

    Good time to pause for this thought, Mary. You’re going into the abundance of Autumn and our Spring is waiting for rain. Thank you for this post.

    • Mary

      September 17, 2020 at 4:46 pm

      Indeed Meg, on the other side our planet. Thank you for reading, my best to you.

  • Joy Ross

    September 17, 2020 at 6:07 pm

    A light, what a great feeling it was to cast a shadow the last couple of days. After several days of knowing the sun could not get thru the smoke to warm us down here 🤔 it was special to know the sun (light) was there and will find us.
    You are so right, Mary, that often when being a Mom it was a challenge to find light.
    Hugs

    • Mary

      September 17, 2020 at 10:11 pm

      Wonderful connection, Joy. Thank you. Thanks for your ongoing support, and hugs~

  • Aletha Riter

    September 17, 2020 at 9:43 pm

    Mary so simple in words, but so deep in thought…Love this… adding it to my
    “Maryings”
    Thank you

    • Mary

      September 17, 2020 at 10:12 pm

      Blessings upon you, Aletha. Thanks for reading, taking the time to ponder and respond.

  • Kathy Bennett

    September 17, 2020 at 11:55 pm

    Beautiful and thoughtful post, Mary.

    • Mary

      September 18, 2020 at 10:36 am

      Kathy! Hope you and all yours are well. My starz, what a time. Thanks for reading and posting~

  • Elizabeth Ellis

    September 18, 2020 at 6:51 am

    This is thought provoking and well worth the read. Thank you.

    • Mary

      September 18, 2020 at 10:37 am

      Elizabeth! Thank you for stopping by to read and post. Good on you for keeping up the storytelling and teaching~ Stay well.

  • Terra Lea Dennis

    September 18, 2020 at 6:50 pm

    Thank you, so easy to focus on the darkness, thank you for the reminder.

    • Mary

      September 18, 2020 at 9:43 pm

      And you Terra Lea indeed are a light~ Thank you.

  • Jill Snow

    September 19, 2020 at 10:45 am

    Mary,
    Rereading this was so much what I needed this morning!
    Love, light and blessings to you!

    • Mary

      September 19, 2020 at 1:00 pm

      Yay! Hope you and yours are managing all of this well, Jill. Thanks so much for reading.Blessings upon you, too~

  • Jennifer Manning

    September 19, 2020 at 11:06 am

    Your post is just what I needed this morning. So much “Truth” in your words.

    • Mary

      September 19, 2020 at 1:02 pm

      Jennifer! How good to see you, thanks for reading. So glad to know this was beneficial to you. Stay tuned~

  • Sharon Cordisco

    September 21, 2020 at 7:01 pm

    Beautiful, Mary.

    • Mary

      September 21, 2020 at 9:43 pm

      Thank you, Radiance~

  • Deanna Helseth

    September 23, 2020 at 12:47 pm

    Love this, Mary! Thank you! I want to adopt that last quote as my life motto!

    • Mary

      September 23, 2020 at 3:59 pm

      Hey you~ So glad you liked it, Deanna. Yeah, we’ll get tattoos. Best to you, friend of 40+ years<*>

  • Judith, storyteller

    September 24, 2020 at 2:50 am

    Such good reminders !Thank you for your lovely writing. Judith

    • Mary

      September 24, 2020 at 3:19 pm

      Thank you, Judith. I appreciate your ongoing reading and support.

  • Mary Duke

    November 10, 2020 at 4:05 pm

    Mary thank you for a wonderful story.

    • Mary

      November 12, 2020 at 3:06 pm

      Merci Madame~ Lovely time to chat and catch up Thank you for reading and commenting~

  • Elizabeth Ellis

    March 29, 2022 at 7:37 am

    Hey Mary,
    good to be in touch. Hope this finds you calm and centered in this time of considerable chaos.
    Thank you for letting me know about Jill Johnson’s memorial service. I plan to attend. Thanks for your help.
    Hugs,
    Elizabeth